I have no recordings of the voice chat, so I can only provide the proof she called us idiots. It's all to say, it wasn't a civil discussion.
I'd argue that if she called us idiots because of being unable to understand what she means, or as a direct insult doesn't really matter, but that's just my opinion.
The discussion was that Señor and I couldn't find out how to properly use a strategy. We argued that we knew how it worked, and she eventually called us actual idiots.
This was prior to any insult being thrown in her direction from Señor.
(And also I didn't say the 'DAMM QUACC RELAX'. I didn't type anything that could be of offense.)